Ernie --
I haven't had a real
job in twenty-something years,
although I had a real estate business for
seventeen years or so. I got fired an awful lot
when I was in
cor-pirate
America and was basically forced into
self
employment--the best thing
that could have happened to me, in retrospect. I
also discovered that I'm organizationally
adverse, and could do five times as much work on
my own as for someone else.
I sold out from my real estate business some years
ago since it was a bit too much and I didn't need
the money any more, and since then I've hit a bit
of a dry spell. I need something new to do in the
way of enjoyable work, and your books gave me some
great ideas.
As a result of having my own business and
enough
money to goof off I was
able to volunteer in many different countries,
spend a year in Mexico altogether (and a year in
various other countries), develop many different
hobbies, read thousands of books, teach myself
all sorts of different things, etc, all while
retaining my health and living a low-stress life
(at least since I got out of real estate).
Your story of your early poverty was inspirational,
especially about being tempted to get a job but
deciding against it. I felt the same way many
times, and I always felt that it wasn't worth the
trade-offs that I would have to make. Whatever
problems I had would have only been complicated by
having a job, since I felt that most jobs that I
had were detrimental to my mental health. It takes
time to regain your serenity after leaving a bad
job, time that you can't get back.
You mentioned that your writing wasn't the
best--your books are
readable and offer good advice, I suppose that's
the only standard that matters. Ever read Louis
L-Amour? His style was awful, but he sold millions.
He knew his audience.
Everybody seems to be reading from the same page in
terms of "success", whatever that is, and being
able to define your own success is the only way to
being happy, in my opinion. It's nice to have the
money and so on, but not everyone can achieve that,
however everyone can define their own success and
be the best they can be.
Thanks too for your explanation of your book
publishing [and
book marketing]. I've sold
some things to a few web sites, but nothing too
profitable. I can write well enough, I just needed
a little motivation, which you gave me. Your piece
on
being
single was great too--I've
always been single, but single people receive no
support for their chosen lifestyle.
Your style is very accessible, common sense, gently
coaxing without being too preachy, at least in my
opinion.
Thanks again.